I'm sorry BM, i have plans. hahaha!!
DS is 6mo as of two days ago, last week (before BM changed the schedule) I made an appointment for him to get his 6mo pictures taken. When FDH informed me that BM would be dropping SD of today, I thought GREAT! Now I have to cancel my plans with DS and just sit at home and wait for BM to drop SD off. (She didn't give us a time, just said during the day.)
Then last night it hit me like a bag of bricks, I'm not changing my plans for BM. She's just trying to control our time, not this time BM.
She texted FDH tgis morning and told him she would drop SD off at 11. He asked me if that would work. Nope! I've got the appointment at 10:50... Too bad. }:) Hahaha.
I told him that I would text BM when I'M done doing MY things. She then texted ME to see what time for sure I could get SD, my reply... I don't know. Maybe 1130, maybe noon. I told her I would text her when I was on my way to get SD. I may just take my time with this photoshoot.
Sure I want to see SD, BUT i'm tired of BM thinking she can decide what I do the days we get SD, especially when she makes changes to the schedule and doesn't give a specific time for pick up/drop off.
I just feel so good right now!! 1 for MdMom 0 for BM.