So I just recently started taking SD during the time BM would normally have her. Because BM got a job and can't afford child care for SD and her half brother. I told FDH I wouldn't mind watching SD, its only an extra two days (Monday and Tuesday)
This is the second week I was suppose to take SD, last week she was dropped off at 830 am on both days and picked up around 2-3. I waited last night for BM to text FDH about the time she would drop SD off, never got the text, so I got up early with DDs thinking BM would text the time to me... Never came.
I told FDH that I'm not going to wait around all day for BM to drop SD off, I have things to do.
It just irritates me that BM wouldn't even text to say she doesn't have to work today... I could have started my errands much earlier. But I guess thats what I get for trying to be nice and helpful for/toward BM. Imma have FDH text her and tell her if she wants my help with SD she needs to let me know 24 hrs in advance when/if she'll be dropping SD off.