I haven't been on for a bit, but I hope everyone had wonderful holidays.
Winter Recess Vacation fiance had daughter from December 25th till January 4th. When fiance went to pick up his daughter(previous relationship), the ex indicated to step-daughter for her not to sit in the front in fiances jeep. Step-daughter ignored her mother, and proceeded to sit in the front. Ex proceeded to as fiance turned on his jeep to bang on the window by the side where step-daughter was sitting; she didn't want step-daughter sitting in the front. Fiance proceeded to drive away, and she yelled she was going to call the police. Fiance caught the red light. From his rearview mirror he saw ex walking towards his vehicle. He proceeded to pass the light because, he didn't know what she was going to do.
Fiance drove away till he was a few blocks away, and he pulled his jeep over. He finally spoke to step-daughter about what just occurred. Step-daughter cried, and fiance consoled her. Fiance changed conversation by inquiring with step-daughter what she had in the bag. Step-daughter informed Fiance it was a gift for him, and for her baby sister. Fiance proceeded to have a conversation with step-daughter about having to return the gifts because, it wasn't nice they are other individuals in the household. Step-daughter proceeded to explain to Fiance that her mother had purchased his gift, and the gift for her baby sister she purchased with her piggy bank money. Fiance then inquired what your step-mom, and your sister? Step-daughter started to cry. Fiance continued to talk to step-daughter, and step-daughter informed Fiance that if she mentioned me or my daughter(previous relationship) she would get screamed on by her mother.
Fiance then proceeded to the local precinct of where the incident had taken place with the ex to file a report. Fiance found out that NYC has a rule that a child must be 16 years old to sit in the front but, NYS law allows a child to sit in the front if the child meets the height and weight requirement. Interesting to know. The police didn't file report because, according to the police no one was hurt, and since they were divorced it no longer was a domestic violence issue. This is the police for you. I told Fiance he should stood where he had parked to talk to step-daughter so, the police could come to him. The police would have had no choice to file a report. I learned this when I went to court to attempt to get an order of protection against the ex because, she was harrassing me when I accompanied Fiance to the pick up and drop offs.
Its get better.
During the time step-daughter was here since the post office worked on the days there was no holidays when I arrived from work step-daughter asked one day if a card had arrived. I checked the mail, and no card. Me and Fiance found it strange so, Fiance had a conversation with step-daughter why the importance of the card. Step-daughter told Fiance she had sent him a card. Fiance asked him what about the other people who lived here. Step-daughter stood silent. Fiance then proceeded to ask step-daughter have you ever done a card here for your mom's or your mom's family that didn't indicate your family from your mom's side? Step-daughter replied, "no". Fiance informed step-daughter when he received the christmas card he wasn't going to open it.
Its get even better.
New Year's Eve Fiance's mom came over to spend it with us so, she wasn't alone at home. When the clock hit 12 midnight Fiance stated Happy New Year to everyone, Fiance's mom stated Happy New Year, my daughter(previous relationship) stated Happy New Year to everyone, Step-daughter said Happy New Year to Fiance, Fiance's mom(her grandmother), and proceeded to call her mom from her cell phone. Fiance waited till she finished her call, and asked step-daughter if she couldn't wait a few seconds to call her mom, and just have stated Happy New Year to me and my daughter(previous relationship)? Step-daughter then proceeded to state Happy New Year to us.
Now that I have shared all of this does anyone have any input? Share your stories about the holidays. Is your drama far worse then mine?