Just need advice
I am posting because, fiancee received an email from ex-wife. She alleges a situation between my bio-daughter,12 years old and step-daughter, 10 years old. As per the ex-wife last weekend when step-daughter was here; my daughter was talking to one of her male friends. As per the ex-wife one of the male friends asked step-daughter to be his girlfriend. The ex-wife proceeds to tell fiancee that the step-daughter is too young for this kind of things. She then proceeds to state if I the girlfriend lets her bio-daughter have one that isn't her concern but, step-daughter is. She then proceeds to ask fiancee supervise step-daughter more. She than goes into reminding him how fiancee and ex-wife had a conversation about boyfriends and that step-daughter will have a boyfriend the same age she did at 17 years old because, her education comes first.
I understand her concern but, at the same time I am really annoyed about her comment: if girlfriend lets her daughter have one that isn't my concern but, step-daughter is. She doesn't even know me or my methods of raising my daughter for her to state such a comment. I would have understood if she would have stated I am concerned about the phone conversation that happened and would like for you both to speak to the ladies. I am trying to have patience with fiancee's ex-wife but, it is starting to really make me think about my relationship with fiancee. Fiancee is telling me not to think about it and to let it go. I am to the point I want to pack my bags and just go with my daughter. I don't need this stress. I just don't want her to mention me or my daughter in anything relating to them. Your custody battle is your problem and neither me or my daughter have to be involved. Am I wrong? Any advice will be appreciated it.