had blow out with bf, need advice please!!!!
so sd11 has been so HORRIBLE, stealing my things, lying, screaming in my face. about the only thing bf does is 'ground' her, but obviously t doesnt work.
so, tonight when she went to bed, i didnt say goodnight. and he jumps down my throat saying that i am immature for not saying goodnight to her. and i am immature for giving her the rest of my gummy bears when she tried to sneak one. and i am immature because i want to send her to a military type school. uh, hello, the kid is out of control!!!!!
so what do i do? how do i explain how i do not like her cause of how she is? its been 5yrs now and it gets worse not better. if i didnt have bd3, i would so leave right now. but ss11 would miss me too much, and sd11 would be jumping for joy.
i told him today that sometmes i am afraid of hurting sd11 when she gets in my face. i am NOT a violent person and i am NOT a bad person. i would NEVER hurt someone. but i feel like i may lose it soon with sd11. he acts like he doesnt care.