I am very frustrated right now. I am wondering if anyone knows if I can stop the ex wife from using my address as her own? I get mail for her here and it drives me crazy. Not only that but every time I take the kids to the doctor and she has been there with them before me she always has her name and my address. She has never lived here. She puts responsible party as her name with my address. She is NOT the responsible party at all (I could tell you stories). The children live with me and the BF.
Also in the divorce papers it says she choose to go back to her maiden name... but she still uses her married name.. its going on three years now... How can I get her to stop using it? I am curious because our names are very close and I do not want out credit scores to become mixed since hers is so bad. Now that she is using my address for things, I am scared that once I marry my boyfriend that our names will be so similar with the same address, it will be hard to separate the two... any suggestions?
And to just vent really quick... the stepkids go to the doctor way too much. Every little cough and they run to the doctor. I was not raised that way. I am fighting a losing battle here. Especially now that the H1N1 is around. The BM is suppose to pay 25% of the medical bills, and we never see any of it. But of course she is all about taking the kids the doctor any chance she can get. it does not matter for what, she will pull them out of school and take them. Its nice to spend other people's money I guess. I guess she does not even care because she knows that we will pay for it because it is in our name because the insurance is in the BF name. We have been working on buying a house and working on our credit, so she knows we will pay for it all. UGH.
How can I change that? He is required per the divorce papers to hold the insurance... How can I make sure she is paying her fair share? Maybe then she will stop convincing the children they are going to die without going to the doctor?
How many times a year on average does your SK go to the doctor? It is impossible reasoning with the SK because they are teenagers and their BM knows best. Last week the oldest SK went to the doctor to see what her allergies were, we got the bill... now yesterday she wants to go again because she is still not feeling well. I said, did you get your allergy medication? she said no. but she still wants to go to the doctor anyway UGH!!!! That is why you are still not feeling good... what is the point of going to see what you are allergic to if you are not going to take any medication for it????? (she lives with BM)...
How can I stop the medical bills from piling up???
Thanks for reading,