A couple months ago boyfriend took the boys out to eat. they are 7 and 6. The 6 year old threw up on the table, and most of it got on his plate. Boyfriend talked to BM that night for her evening update. He laughed about how he "gave the waitress a good tip for cleaning the mess up."

I was disgusted.

Don't you think HE should have taken it upon himself to take the plate of puke to a garbage can and wipe it off himself. And he should have wiped the puke off the table himself. The waitress shouldn't have had to do any of that!!! what kind of man does that!!! My niece threw up at a family dinner when she was 3. My sister wisked her away to the restroom. While my BIL cleaned up the mess on the chair, table and plate. He only called the waitress over for cleaning spray and more napkins.