My three kids and I are moving into my fiancé's home. My two boys are sharing a room and my BD and SD will share a room. SD refuses to calm it "their room", it's her room. She is 10, my daughter is 8. Any ideas that BD has SD very ugly tells her no. Yesterday when I was cleaning her room for painting I get this text, " you do your room and I will do MY room". This stirred up a lot of emotion, good thing fiancé was hunting. This can be such a touchy subject. I don't want my feelings hurt and I sure don't want her being sassy and hurting BD' s feelings. I understand it's hard for her to share her room but I can't take the attitude. Help!