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New Year - New Me - Don't Like it - Don't Care

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Submitted by hbell0428 on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 11:25am

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After trying several thousand things and trying not to make waves or DO what StepParents are "supposed" to do - I have decided to just do as I wish. DH doesn't like - don't care. I have let my SD13 and DH run my house for too long. I am me and this is how it is. I will treat ALL kids the same Mine or Not. I am raising her full time now. BM has handed her to us. If my DH disagrees then it will be made clear that I WONT do for her anymore at all!! }:) . What's good for MINE/OURS - should be good enough for her!!

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Submitted by ThatGirl on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 1:19pm

Atta girl!!!!

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Submitted by Zoie on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 1:24pm

Cheers to you girl...I am so glad to hear that...tell them all to buckle up and giddy up...it's go time.....

Z Smile

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Submitted by steptwins on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 2:00pm

Agree - tonight big game on TV for DH so I won't bother hanging around, told him I'd be home around 9. Looking so forward to it - working out, eating sushi, & no TV.

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Submitted by hbell0428 on Tue, 01/11/2011 - 9:07am

I will say this has been the hardest thing to do!! It is a never ending battle - I am still doing as I please but getting a bad reaction from DH - he is pulling the you don't love her crap!! OMG

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Submitted by ddakan on Wed, 01/12/2011 - 3:54am

I'm with you on that one!!! Here's a song for the steppers:

"It's alright now, I've learned my lesson well, you see you can't please everyone, so you've gotta please yourself..." Ricky Nelson