Why is it so hard for a man to say no when it comes to their kids?
YSD is begging DH for money for a car. She hasnt even turned 16 yet.
I am really against DH giving any money to YSD for a car for numerous reasons such as:
Is she responsible?
Is she going to get a job?
How is she going to pay for insurance and maintainence of car. (I know this will fall on DH, so I am not looking forward to that)
I'd rather DH use any "extra" money to pay for stuff for the house. (We need to make some repairs and upgrades.)
DH is paying back student loans, I think he needs to focus on that.
BM isn't helping at all.
I feel that DH will be paying for something he has no control over.
So when YSD starts her texting asking DH to help her buy a car and how she only has $500 and she doesn't want to drive around in a junky car and blah blah blah blah, why doesnt Dh just say NO.
I'm pretty sure he has no plan to help YSD with a car. I am almost 100% confident that he realizes there are more important things to pay for at this time. IF he had the extra money, I think he would. But knowing right now he doesn't I dont think its any issue.
Instead of just saying NO. He says everything but NO but not YES.
I dont have the money right now.
I can help you find a car for cheap.
or just ignoring YSD's texts.
Dude, just tell her NOOOOOOOOOOOO! Isnt it so much easier to just say NO and deal with her fit NOW instead of her bugging you via text every other day? It's not even me she's texting and I'm hella annoyed.
Why is it that he is finding it so damn hard to tell her no? Oh I know, she's his precious special snowflake princess and he doesnt want to hurt her fee-fees. Instead he will just drag her along thinking, maybe just maybe he is going to help her with a car, and that is better in his mind then just flat out telling her No.