So since we found out that SD21 was engaged again to her ex who is in prison for the next 16 years, she basically has been avoiding us like the plague. Of course the only way we even found out she was deciding to stand by him was by her facebook page. We did notice that one day she came by during the day to move more of her stuff out of our house. Gotta admit, it has been so peaceful and calm in our house since we don't have to constantly tell her 2 yr old son to not get into anything while SD21 just sits on the couch texting. Of course just a few days ago she asked us for $100 and we said no.

So this past Friday she comes back home and she is all smiles, acting like nothing has happened. Of course she brings all of her dirty laundry over to be washed as well. She then asks my wife if she can watch the 2 yr old for a few hours while she goes out. Wife tells her no because we made plans to have a date night. SD21 then asks my wife again if she has the $100 for her, wife tells her no. This just irks me to no end because she has been basically hiding from us because she doesn't want to have to explain why she is with her ex again, and then she shows up like nothing has happened and immediately asks us to watch her kid and do all of her laundry. Also she signed our rental agreement the week before, so technically she should have given us rent money instead of asking for it. Also we found out that she has been cut off of cash assistance for the next 6 months. This is because she never reported to them that she was working part-time before. Of course she blames the government for this instead of taking accountability for her own screw up. She then leaves Sat evening saying that she has a chance to go work for somebody and make some money.

A few weeks ago she finally purchased a car. Now, she KNEW she needed to buy insurance before she even purchased the car. Because of her horrible driving record she will have to pay $160 for cut rate insurance, but she did have the money for it. She also didn't pay the extra $200 to have the dealership get the license plates for her. Come to find out she has been driving around these past few weeks without car insurance. She then texts my wife last night and asks if we can put her and the car on our insurance for just a month, just until she supposedly gets her student loan money the first of next month. I told my wife hell no. I am tired of my SKIDS spending their money on whatever the hell they want to, and then expecting us to help them with the things they HAVE to get. I'm sick of it and I'm not doing it anymore, and I don't care how pissed off any of them get. Maybe my wife and I should party with our bill money and then ask them for $$$ when we can't pay our mortgage. The stupid thing is, we know for a FACT she had the money to buy car insurance when she bought the car. I'm sick of being everybody backup plan when they screw up!!