I want this to end -more I don’t understand
I want to know what parenting or maybe divorce book says that only parents should be picking up their child? I am being sarcastic. Now I have begun to speculate more and more about what SO does because he is so manipulative to get his way about his kids.I suppose he was asked to pick SS up after the basketball game by BM and he didn't think he could because he was working . He got done sooner then expected and SS grandfather was picking him up . GP was already at the school waiting for him . When SO told me ,which , as you know I don't care he basically was begging GP to pick him up himself. Again it shouldn't surprise me but seriously. Then SO later says he wants to take me to breakfast and walk around this area of town we like to go to. But then he says he should really ASK BM if he can pick SS up after practice instead of before Somehow they have gotten into this routine of SO taking him because BM only wants to pick him up and take him to lunch etc. you know because SS will do things with BM and not SO. She does the driving when it suits her . I said don't worry we don't have to go. Again with no mean tone. SO says you have to stop with you temper I have to do my share with SS rides. SO said he felt bad because GP had to do it today. BM shouldn't have had to get to do it. Let me tell you this GP is as bad as my SO with following this child around. It is like it is his hobby now that he is retired. I would be making GP do it more since he is up the kids butt. The thing is why do BM and SO think it is so bad to have someone else pick up their kid. If there was a CO both of them would have had to find rides for years for these kids when it was there visitation days. Not backing each other up. Yes I know SO will always do it because he seems to like it. I am venting again .