Super Pissed!! Bio son issue
So yesterday DS5 said he wanted to be a car rider (he wanted me to take him to/pick him up from school) this after fighting with me over the summer to ride the bus to school. He LOVES riding the bus. I asked him what was wrong and he said nothing. Lies but whatever. Then when I picked him up yesterday afternoon he seemed sad. I asked him if he was okay and he started crying and said he didn't want to ride the bus anymore. I questioned him and he finally came out with it...some little asshole is picking on my son. He said this kid called him a fucking bitch because my son was in HIS seat. He said this kid has been picking on him since Monday. I called the school and they told me they would handle it.
DS forgot his library book so I took it to school this morning. When he came to the office to get it he was really clingy and asking if I was sure I was picking him up from school today and I said yes. DS is not a clingy child. So I took him into the hall to question him apparently this kid called him a pussy this morning. I'm done. I told the administrator I wanted a meeting with this kid's parents. The administrator, poor lady, did her best to calm me down. I told her we don't tolerate bullying-at all. She said they take this sort of thing very seriously and they will handle it. She said she will talk to the student and call his parents. I want to talk to them but she doesn't think it's a good idea. Maybe she thinks I'll jack up an elementary school kid...
I want DS to learn how to deal with this sort of thing but I don't know how to teach it to him. I don't ever remember being picked on at that age. I vaguely remember beating the snot out of some boy that pushed my sister off the jungle gym when I was 7. I remember a few times when I was a teenager getting picked on because I'm thick. But by that time I didn't care what other people thought of me.