DS6 problem need some advice
Okay so I don't want to come across as one of those parents that think their kid does no wrong because that is NOT the case.
DS6 goes to martial arts after care. Today the instructor came to me and said that a little boy told them that DS said some really nasty things. When confronted by the instructor and myself he denied it. No downward look he looked me straight in the eye and said he didn't say it. DS usually caves pretty quickly. Especially when confronted by DH. I don't know what to do. If he did it I want him to apologize to the child and he will lose his kindle and all tv/game privileges. If he didn't I don't want him to be punished for something he didn't do (he'll lose his belt for 3 days and have 1 strike of 3 against him)
The story I was given was basically my son just attacked this kid completely unprovoked. He said DS said "My dad is going to kill you, you bitch, motherfucker, bitch boy" Even if this kid was picking on DS I don't see him using foul language like that. If the roles were reversed I would have asked what DS did to the other kid.
My sister used to have an in home daycare and I asked her what she thought, she said she totally doesn't see DS using that kind of language.
What do you think? What should I do?