The Big lie continues
Dh and I got ambushed last night. I fully believe it was a planned attack by the three SD's. When the harpy twins SD16 and SD18, screamed accusations and insults at me a few weeks ago, one of the questions that SD asked me was "If SD21 wanted to come over for holidays, would you be willing to let her?" I told her that is up to SD21. She has had 6 years to apologize and sit down to talk with me about her behavior (that led to her choosing to live with her mom.) SD16 tried to make it about me, and I shut her down, saying that SD21 has had plenty of time to own up to her actions and she has chosen not to.
When I heard SD16 mention SD21, my spidey sense told me that SD21 might be behind some of these "verbal abuse" accusations they were trying to lay at mt feet. Funny, since i literally was unable to say anything to them due to DH not wanting to spook them into running to mommee's house for good. So, DH had a terrible day. His pita of a boss called HR on him about something piddly, and is trying to get him fired. I have been telling DH for almost a year that it would come to this, and that he should be looking for another job so he can tell this guy to go F*** himself. Dh is in a bad mood, and I am coughing up a lung from the flu. Dh gets a phone call from ....SD21. SD21 just wanted to tell him that her aunt, who is invited to our Thanksgiving dinner, "invited her to come to our house for Thanksgiving." DH says "Well, if that is true then your aunt overstepped her bounds. You are not coming to Thanksgiving."
SD21 says, "But I'm your daughter! Why?!" He says, you have had 6 years to make it right with Sheildmaiden, and you chose not to.'SD21 then says "Well, SHE is the one who slammed my head in a freezer door when i was 14. I have gotten over it. Why can't SHE?"
DH says "I was there, and that NEVER happened. If you want to arrange to talk to her, then that's fine. Right now, she is sicker than a dog, so its not a good time."
Meanwhile, I am incredulous to hear this lie come out of her mouth, after I have heard her sisters repeat this lie, and I was pretty sure she was the source of it, but wasn't sure if it was her or BM. DH excused himself and hung up. DH and I got into a fight. I finally said "Time out DH. Do you realize we have both been ambushed? We have allowed ourselves to be manipulated into a fight because SD21 decided its convenient for her to come to Thanksgiving and invite herself?" DH agreed. We agreed to stand strong against SD21, and that she will not be at our Thanksgiving. DH promised to hold the line for me. I promised myself that I may need to get a restraining order if she shows up.
Wow. Just wow. I can;t believe the nerve of this girl. Where does she get off telling lies about me and inviting herself to my house? Now the younger two SD's want to show up at 6 pm for leftovers. This weekend is their weekend to ruin my life for 2 days, so I am hoping all will go well. I am so done with entertaining these two twats and their entitled, lying sack of crap older sister. Sorry. I just had to rant. DH may be heading into a deep depression, based on his listless face this morning. I don't need this right now. I am home from work today due to the flu, but can't rest because I have to clean this house before company comes over.