Well I always knew that this particular group has "clear slate syndome". Wake up and its a new day, folks.
Everyone is happier than ever!
Husband is kind and loving and happily hanging out.
SD16 B/M bought a little mini pie-maker with her party money and happily showed it off to me.
Everyone is happy and cheerful. Things got "fixed". No one is talking about it.
My friend tells me "its their way, you either go with it or go away"... they deal with things and move on.
Maybe all this time Ive been over thinking things. Just wipe the slate clear.
My take-aways...just progress...