Teenage son moving out and step mom clearing out room
I am a divorced father of two sons. I have custody of them. I have been re married for several years. My new wife and son have never seen eye to eye. My oldest son (18yo) recently moved out. My wife said that she was going to clean his room the other day. Yesterday I went into his room and to my horror, the room was emptied out! She had taken down all of his posters and basically erased the fact that he had ever lived there.
I felt as though she misled me by saying that she was going to "clean" his room as compared to maybe "cleaning out" his room or "clearing out" his room or maybe even being open and saying her real intentions so that I would have the ability to object beforehand. She is aware that I have had a hard time with him moving out.
I am putting this out there to see what others may think about this???