Negative feelings towards SD11
I have known my SO for 14 years, been together 5 years. We live together with their DD11 and I don't like her at all... We had a really good relationship and thought we were close, but in the last 18 months she has been 'out to get me' and I can't take it anymore.
The way she speaks to us is disgusting, there is no respect respect, we are just there to meet her every want. Of she doesn't get it then she throws tantrums, shouts, mocks and belittles. She tells us no all the time and won't do as she is asked unless there is something in it for her, and even then most of the time she still won't.
She lies about me, hides or breaks things and says I have done it. Tells me lie that my SO has said or done. She has no respect, no manners. No matter what I do it is never enough or forgotten about as soon as she doesn't get her own way. She doesn't do any chores or contribute what's so ever. Everything has to be done for her.
She has 'lost' 3 mobile phones, thrown a hoover down the stairs, kicked me in the face. Tells me she hates me, takes my things and things of my SO and hides them.
She has ran away from me on the way to school, on the way back from shopping. Manipulates my SO to get what she wants. She is so rude.
SO puts in consequences, takes tech, early nights, removes puddings, but she doesn't care about any of it.
She punishes us. Goes onto my SO phone and reads all out messages, deletes our messages, reads messages to other people and twists what my SO has been talking about. Uses them to hurt me.
There is so much and I can't take anymore. Last night I expressed that I hate this girl to my SO and apparently she heard... and I don't even care that she heard. I want her to know the hate I'm feeling, because you can't go around treating someone like this and just expect them to keep on giving, for her to keep on taking from me.
I'm exhausted and have no support because I an always left being in the wrong.
I am so lonely