In need of advice!!
Hello all. I am new to this site and need advice ASAP. My stepdaughter is 19, been her step mom since she was 10-11 years old. Like all relationships, we've had our ups and down but for the most part it has been great. Her father, my SO, is 10 years my senior and me and her and I are 15 years apart so she sometimes looks to me as a "big sister" for advice. Sounds weird but it is so true. So the other day she texts me and asks if she can ask for my advice (which is normal for her) at first I thought it was boyfriend issues or college stress. However she drops a bomb on me and says she's pregnant! And to not tell her dad. I told her to go to the doctors to confirm but I haven't heard back how it went. On the other hand her relationship with her dad is not always the best. He still sees her as his little girl. I didn't tell him because one she asked me not to and I feel he will freak out. Did I do the right thing and keep it a secret from Him or should I tell him? Thank you!