BM's friend that feeds us info just messaged me. She let me know that BM's employer is now writing her paychecks to BM's boyfriend.
I would venture to guess this happened after we surprised her in court last time calling her out and showing her Facebook pictures of her working for the weed dispensary. She claimed in court that she was just a volunteer there- if you didn't remember.
BM filed for contempt against DH for alimony (we have overpaid by 5K) since we had it stopped. BM has been ordered to turn over financials like 6 times and her lawyer keeps saying it isn't necessary since she gets disability she just gets factored at minimum wage. We know that she does get disability but also works full time selling weed at the dispensary. She also got a disability settlement that was never factored in. Our lawyer isn't worried about any of that since we have proof of overpayment anyway, but I just want her to be fully caught in court for all of her lies.
We are subpoenaing for her taxes since 2015, and bank statements for the month prior to her starting work and then 9 months after (right before she was busted in court) to show a proof of regular deposits.
I would THINK the judge would see through this since BM's boyfriend is city worker for their little town. He is like the maintenance man for the town. However, I don't even know anymore. I am so frustrated by all of this right now!!
OH and BM and her BF are apparently getting married "very soon" since it will look better in court. I can't eyeroll enough at that BS. SS used to tell us that if BM and her BF ever got married he would run away. So that is interesting... I wonder if he still feels that way.