BM and marijuana
Does anyone have experience with BM testing positive for marijuana?
For those that don't know my back story:
This has been a 6 yr battle with SEVERE alienation. We have the GAL report which slammed BM for her actions. We have so much against her it isn't even funny. Fictitious disease disorder, alienation, listing her BF as "father" on school and medical forms, changing SS's phone number and not letting my husband contact him, 2 contempt charges for visitation (spring break and summer- we are out of state so this is out only time), etc. However, court is in small town in a rural area. BM friendly is an understatement.
BM also has been claiming she can't work and is on disability. However, we found out she works across state lines in a medical marijuana state for a dispensary. We are sure she will test positive. We also are betting SS14 will too. After all, he would need it for all the chronic pain for the non-existent diseases he has....( you can't see my eye roll, but it's here!)
Is this worth pursuing in court? DH and are are leaning towards asking for BM, her BF and SS to be tested. It would also show that if he does test positive that she "lost parental control" which is one of the GAL's biggest gripes on BM.
DH is meeting our lawyer Sunday, court is Monday.
PS- thank you for all the support and well wishes! I am finally starting to feel a little better. I even went into my office for 2 hours today and made it out to eat with DH (totally rocking my my mumu!). Of course my office and the restaurant are both less than a mile from the house but we are flying out Saturday so I have to make it thru these things!