Is this out of line?? Need advice ladies
Now that ss went to live with bm we were ordered to pay all traveling costs..when we had custody we split down the middle for years..but of course, she gets what she wants now and what she wants is for us to give her every penny we have. Quite frankly we were just ordered to pay 600.00 a month for ss(bm is one happy lark now) so we may lose our house because this is half of our payment. We also have to pay his medical and you can be sure she will take him every time he sneezes, she is a "" like that.
So, this is what I need advice for. I have told my husband I am done with the situation in the fact that I am not going to drive to pick up ss with our 3 other children. I am sick of this and am not going to let their crap ruin our vacations etc.....I am planning spring break without ss. If my husband wants to go get ss many hours away then so be it but the kids and I will not be going. I am not holding up my plans for them. Been dealing with crap for 12 years and I am over it. Is this terrible of me?