They did it again to my DH! I'm pissed!!!!!
Another slap in the face by SD9, our Christmas holiday started Dec17 and ends Dec26. Well last time we had the girls the youngest 6 said she didnt want to come down anymore, my DH rule is I will never make you come to my house I would love for you to so I can see you girls but I am never going to make you. So we knew that we where only getting one girl for that time, sucked but we will deal with it I would rather her stay home with BM then come here a cause problems.
Well Friday came and our time stared at 6 pm it was about noon when we got a text from BM saying that know the oldest doesnt want to come down. My DH calls to talk to his daughter to find out whats going on, she tells him she doesnt want to come down but she will come down the day before Christmas (for the stuff). My husband said no I work the day before Christmas she said no she didnt want to come and AGIAN left my DH heart broken (that just pisses me the BLANK off) I start crying cause I see the hurt in my H eyes his girls have become so selfish!
I know the biggest reason for them not wanting to come here its me I make them follow rules I make them mind so does their dad but when he is at work its all me. At their moms house they dont have many rules they can pretty much do as they please. So yeah at that age doing whatever and knowing you wont get in trouble is great.
I am at the end of my rope I want to yell at those girls so bad for hurting my husband the way they have, to be real honest I dont want either if then in my house anymore. What do I do any advice?