Really??? We could have use all that stuff!
My lost post I told you about us having problems with my 2 SD well we talked to the oldest 9 and things are back on the right track for now with her our youngest 6 still having problems she doesn't want to come see us anymore she doesn't like it here. My DH has always siad he will never force them to come if they don't want to which I'm glad cause when they are here and unhappy just drags us all down. Well DH talked to BM one night when the kids were he she was almost in tears saying the child support didn't help much all it paid for was child care, she was saying she doesn't have money for clothes for the kids and people are having to feed them cause they don't have any food at home. Well I fell for it hook line and sinker! I got her a box of food a big bag of meat and a trash bag full of clothes for the girls, I felt like that's what we needed to do cause they are my DH responsibly. Then when she gets the girls back all this stuff is given to her then the next time my DH talks to BM she tells us she gets food stamps and she gave some of the food away and then takes the kids for a night on the town! We are just making it we got her stuff together and she does that its BS!!!!! What should we do for next time? Have any of you had this problem?