Please tell me what you would do?
My husband has a BM and I've never had any real issues with her. However I feel like women know when other women feel like they can take your man whenever they wanted to. That's the vibe get from her.
When my husband and I were engaged and she found out he got emotional and threatened to move away etc.i understand that, they were inappropriate five year relationship. He tells me she constantly cheated but many people only tell me side so idk. I feel like I'm in too deep to ask her side without looking weird. Also we arent close. Anyway I happened to be on his phone and he received a text from her clicked and read the messages and I saw them sending mushy text. Him saying he still loved her etc. When I confronted him he said that she was threatening to take the kids. I thought I understood but I'm realizing that, that situation is still affecting me three years later. I'm scared to be fully submissive and myself with him because I dont want to show so much of myself for her to pull some strings. He's picked her over me twice when we were younger. He says he'd never go back but those text haunt me. Its affecting our "intimate time" and my trust wavers when ever they speak for too long. I love my step kids, I love our child we have together, I love him but I'm not confident in him to be honest. Please help, ask further questions if needed. Be honest please and thank you.