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SS not due for at least a week and the crazy has already started!

Willow2010's picture

Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 9:49am

SS is not due here for at least 1 and half weeks. DH has not talked to BM in over 6 months. But it is already starting. ARG… Out of the blue, she sent DH a text last night ….

BM: SS said that you wanted to talk to me…?
DH: no not sure where he got that from.
BM: Something about insurance.
DH: ummm no, I told him that he needed insurance on his car while he is here. That was all.

This is how the crazy starts. And it will just get worse as we work up to the visit. I think that SS just wants his mom and dad to talk so bad that he makes up crap like that.

It is funny when this stuff starts and DH starts going back to the same old blind person he is when SS and BM are concerned.

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Willow2010's picture

Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 10:17am

Yep...I will be a raving lunatic by the time he gets here. For sure if he and BM keep this kind of crap up. UGH!!!

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Submitted by Annanymous on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 1:19pm

I don't know, I am learning that tweens and teens are pretty dense, so might actually be that he has no idea and leaves it to BM to handle for him.

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Submitted by lily11 on Tue, 08/14/2012 - 2:11pm

I know what this is like and it drives me crazy too. DH used to get sucked into this with both BM and ss16. He doesn't respond to BM anymore, not ever. He talks directly with ss16 and ss16 is well aware that DH isn't playing any of BM's games. It is my opinion that the kids get so used to the drama they don't even understand if they are contributing to it. We had to demonstrate healthier communication for ss16. It took a long time to get to this point. It's been well worth the effort on my part to intervene and make it clear to DH that BM is not welcome in our lives. Anytime she tries to start it up again I tell DH that it feels like she's in my house and I absolutely don't want her here.