SO needs to be evaluated because he is delusional.
After a year of lockdowns, I made plans for DS and I to go in some trips together. Prior to COVID the last trips we went on YSD completely ruined with her disruptive, disrespectful tantruming behavior. I still have PTSD from the experience.
I made a promise to DS I would make it up to him, since we all had a horrible time.
I have never hid my feelings or intentions from SO. So I was completely taken a back when he mentioned bringing YSD!!!
He must be insane.
I told him flat out that if he plans to do that he will be driving with YSD in a seperate vehicle and renting his own place. I am not having her ruin another vacation I paid for ever again.
If he wants his fatherly guilt to cloud his judgement he can suffer the consequences all on his own. He will not be dragging me down with him