My time appears to be worthless to everyone!
I posted over weekend about SO ending our long weekend because SD12 snapped her fingers and wanted to go to his place. We figured that out and I made my boundaries clear on what behaviour I will accept when we have time scheduled together. I thought we were back on track.
But it would appear that I was wrong. He took this week off work because it’s school holidays but BM told him she also had this week off (after telling him he could have SD this week) so SD was staying with her. They compromised and he was going to have “some” days - obviously not set days because they don’t work like that! So we get to Thursday which is the ONE night we get together during the week but again, I’m blown off because SD is STILL at his place! And is staying the entire weekend so I now won’t see him until Thursday next week (this is my weekend with my kids so I can’t go to his place). That is if SD doesn’t decide to stay at his next week too since his mother will be back home to look after her!
Then to make me even angrier, I texted DS15 to see what time to pick him up tomorrow (no school so he can’t bus home). He says he’s staying at ex’s till Saturday because “we’ll miss the following Saturday with dad when he’s away”. Umm, excuse me? I don’t mind so much that he stays an extra night at ex’s this week but when was I going to be asked to have them for his weekend the following week? That would be never! Ex just expects that I will have them exactly like he did when we were married and his trips came before my job commitments! I’m having a bad week!