on the subject of disengaging....
what is one to say to their DH and his parents when they now accuse you of 'not caring' or 'not being interested in' skids' life?
i've disengaged after trying and trying and getting treated like i don't exist and being critiqued as far as my parenting style with skid12. and now, after stepping away from the situation, i am being criticized for not caring and not being involved.
i can't win. either way. suggestions?