So i don't know that I have a why... And thankfully my Dh doesn't name anything after the skids...

But I just can't fathom why he'd think it was a good idea... We're going to name everything after the skids! It's like some sort of unhealthy obsession... Like he cna't fully difrientiate himself completely as an individual without them. 

I mean if you're going to have cabins, why not just theme them like normal? This is the red cabin, this is the blue cabin, farmhouse, dracula, white, pink, giraffe, etc. There are so many other options that would make them WAY more versetile for guests and visitors. Plus what would he do if you had a guest staying in a cabin and spontaneously skid does fall on a hard time? Kick the guest out for the skid becuase it's "their" cabin?

One positive of the cabins though. They do fall on hard times and you have ZERO concern that they'll be living in your home with you. But I think it's giving them too much power to name something that is yours after them and decorate it how they want. I think how it is with most parents (mine included) once you move out you really don't even have a room anymore. I come and visit and it's in the GUEST room. Becuase that's what I am now. I haven't had a room there since I was 18. Even "my room" i stayed in my last semester of college (long story short I was graduating early and no one wanted to do a half contract for housing) was just an old room that I stacke dmy things in temporarily before leaving again.

Dear Lord, pass the sick bag. No, my DH would not want to name things after his daughters.  If he did, he'd get short shrift from me.  

Oh God. *barf in aforementioned sick bag ^^^*. No, there are times when I wish my SO were more sentimental, but then there are times when I want to high five him for NOT being that way. Especially when it comes to skids.

What's annoying is that your DH is turning your dream into a way to get skids to come stay, when you are finally just free of them! Naming cabins after them? FFS. Naming cats after them?? F that! Thankfully my SO wouldn't dream of any of this and would feel embarrassed suggesting it. I'm annoyed for you.

Side note, I too rescued 3 feral kittens off the streets of our town! We rehomed one of them after he decided litter boxes were not for him, but still kept the other 2. They are NOT named after skids..... 

I don't know how you hid the serious side eye when he named cabins after them. Let him fantasize. Hopefully, the "kids" are successful at adulting and the land can only accommodate ONE guest cabin lol.

Ya, that's not cool. Not the names or the decorating. I think having a theme would be cute but a person?! That's just weird unless they were famous and iconic. 

I love the "farmhouse" theme mentioned above. I am thinking about doing our spare bedroom in similar decor. 

I LOVE these three colors together.https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR6HAQBFRgpMHmfFBfx...
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Your situation does seem particularly cruel. 

My SO has one child and he writes books. He likes to use her name as characters in the book, or mix it up & name other things with her anagram. 

It's not fun to witness- it is like an obsession. 

However, my SO (a bio-scientist) did name a whole genus after his then wife. I was a bit drunk one time and told him I wanted a species named after me. He reminded me that he'd named a genus after ex. I told him I'd be happy with a species. I want my species!!! To be honest, and this is quite geeky, but I've always wanted a species named after me. 

I've never heard of anyone doing this and thank God!! Lol. I would be pretty annoyed too!! Get creative, would ya?!? Not use the kids names!

I think someone asked about this above, but how much time did your DH have with the kids after the divorce? 

My DH doesn't name anything after his kids, but anytime we go anywhere, he'll say how "next time, we'll take SSs here" or "when we take SSs here." He even ruined one trip (before we were married and for which I paid every penny) by spending the whole time saying how much more fun the whole thing would be if SSs were with us. We went on a cruise for our honeymoon (his choice) and he insisted upon booking a cruise for us to take SSs on the following year (they spend a good part of the cruise trying to convince you to book a second). We couldn't afford it, so I never made the payments and we didn't go, but it was almost like he had to do it, because he couldn't enjoy himself on our cruise if he didn't think he was bringing SSs on a future cruise. He and BM went on a cruise when SSs were about 5 and they did not book a cruise for the four of them the following year...I bet they didn't even talk about booking a cruise for all of them to go on. 

It's guilt pure and simple and maybe also frusration that as a NCP, no matter what you do, you largely get cut out of your kids lives. I honestly think that after divorce, the default assumption should be 50/50 and they should only consider other options if 50/50 is just not feasible. My DH is not a full parent to his kids anymore and BM wields all the power thanks to their parenting plan, which gives DH joint legal custody, but other than him reporting BM every time she makes a decision without him (which wouldn't really get him anywhere), there's nothing he can do when she cuts him out. Doesn't help that his family thinks BM's wonderful and that DH is the bad guy (even though BM was the one who wanted to get divorced since she met someone else and BM was behind 90% of the problems in their relationship since she shows strong signs of having borderline personality disorder).