Valuable insight about OSD from YSD
YSD and I had a long talk this morning
She had stayed here last night after everyone went home, and DH had really vented to her about OSD and her treatment of me (I was not present for this discussion but heard about it) but as I was driving YSD back to BM's this morning (DH could not take the morning from work but I could) YSD and I talked about the upcoming wedding etc.. and then she started to tell me how BM is pulling her hair out with OSD right now
YSD told me that the 'hate fest' she has for BM's SO is back, and that there is no rhyme or reason that OSD treats BM's SO this way. YSD said she doesn't get it, one get together they will all have a great time and OSD and BM's SO are getting along fine, and the next one, OSD will bitch that she doesn't want to go, that she's not in the mood to see BM's SO, then will show up and treat him like crap etc..
This is of course exactly what I put up with from OSD
This was valuable information for me as I see it is apparently just the way OSD is :?
Between not so much as a text message of condolence when my brother died (although we had been as her place the night before spoiling her sons) no message to DH on his birthday, and of course the whole referring to me by my maiden name thing recently, I'm coming to realize that she really is just screwed up
Not even worth getting worked up about...she must be one very unhappy person!
I did take the opportunity to tell YSD that I love her, that she is a dream skid, and that I am grateful every day for her. She was very moved, and told me that it's mutual