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BM's sister spit in my face and I put hands

TickedOff's picture

She shows up somewhere she wasn't invited and starts running her mouth. Spewing crap at DH and I about how we treated SD18. SD18 must have been making up lies to get attention because we have been loving her through her problems. I have a hard time holding my tongue. I tried and I tried. I told her to mind her own. She came at me and had to be held back. I tried to leave she followed me to my car. She was trying to hold the door from me being able to get in DH had to go around and pull her back. She turned to leave then turned back around and called my name as soon as I turned my head she spit in my face. I blacked out and lunged at her DH had to us his mass to push us apart. We both chose not to press charges because she assaulted me by spitting and I threw the first punch. The officers asked us both to leave before we get disturbing the peace.

I feel ashamed. If you think I was in the wrong go ahead and ream me. I make no excuses for my actions. i acted like a misguided teenager and not an adult a mother and a business woman. Next time I will make sure she is not invited anywhere I am. If she shows up I will leave the second I realize she is there. I am happy DD was not there to see this. I know violence is not the answer. I am here to just vent and let this off my shoulders. I know I was wrong and I'm lucky no charges were filed.

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hereiam's picture

Probably would've been my first reaction, too. Spitting in someone's face is seriously low class (not to mention disgusting).

FTMandSM's picture

I hate spitting, its so disgusting. I would have done the same. Name calling is one thing but spitting is an entirely ddifferent ball game.

MaggieMay's picture

If she assaulted you by spitting, what you did was defend yourself. If you can afford it, can you see an atty about an ro? I know you dont want to start anything, but i believe if you have an ro, she CAN'T be anywhere you are... So you wont have to avoid her, she has to do the work. Just a thought.

Shaman29's picture

In the future, if you're able (cause I would have done the same), call the police and file assault charges.

It is considered assault which is a threat or attempt to inflict offensive physical contact or bodily harm on a person. Basically...it can be construed as a bio-hazard because if she has a disease that is transmitted via bodily fluids, it can be argued she was purposely trying to harm you.

Anon2009's picture

I agree with the others. Get an RO on her. ASAP.

Violence isn't the answer but neither is spitting in someone's face.

Shaman29's picture

I'd like to add that if someone spit on me, I'd probably wouldn't be able beat their ass, as I'd be too busy vomiting all over them. There is something so disgusting about spitting and triggers my gag reflex every time.

Shaman29's picture

Awwwwww.....thank you Just Wow.

Me too. It's why I admire my friends that have kids and anyone in the health care industry. How in the hell do they deal with all of the multicolored items that escape from their children and patients??

Rags's picture

Far from chastising you for defending yourself I want to know why you did not beat her to within an inch of her nasty toxic disgusting little spitter life?

Even professional educated people have limits and this spitting no character POS went way past any limit that a reasonable person would tolerate without bringing so much pain down on her that she would rue the day she ever pushed you that far. I would have handed her teeth back to her by shoving them in to her broken and bleeding mouth with the advice to "keep her spit in her mouth and here is a bit of spit left on your teeth".

Grrrrr!

While you are at it, press charges and request that she be tested for every saliva born pathogen including rabies. I think the only way to test for it is by harvesting brain from the suspected host. Maybe they will put her out of the planets misery by removing her brain to test for rabies. }:)

Shaman29's picture

Bwwwwaaahahahahaha. Rabies! That would be awesome to make the spitter go through those tests!

not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

Would have wiped the floor with her. Only difference is, I would have knocked her out with the first punch.

TickedOff's picture

wow I'm surprised. I'm happy you all have my back.Thanks for the advice. There's a lot of bad asses on steptalk! I feel a lot better now. Se is lucky DH pushed us apart. I do wish I could have seen her hauled off.

Shaman29's picture

That reminds me of something H likes to say,

Her canary ass couldn't outrun her alligator mouth.

Shaman29's picture

You're welcome. They way I see it, instead of throwing a punch, she spat on you. Either way you were defending yourself.

Midwest Stepmom's picture

I've done the same thing, but I was in high school. A girl spit in my face so I punched her so hard in the face her teeth went through her bottom lip.

I'm not sure I would react in the same manner as an adult. I would have made sure not to touch her and press charges. Having a criminal record follow you is a great revenge, because then you know you really did damage to them.

fedupstep's picture

Oh hell no! Spitting would make me snap! You did nothing wrong. Get that RO and put it behind you. Smile

IslandGal's picture

I say good on you for sockin' her one!! For fuck's sake, if BM or ANYONE spat in my face, they'd better have the ambo's on speed dial 'cos bitch is gunna be either crippled or in a coma. The fact that she was BM's SISTER who had absolutely no right even approaching you, doing what she did, just boggles my brain!

Pat yourself on the back! You did good!! I'll bet the stupid skunt will think twice now about doing the same thing to anyone in future.

Helena.Handbasket's picture

Spitting is absolutely disgusting and disrespectful. I hope you busted her mouth.

lintini's picture

Holy crap!! I would have curb stomped her ass if I was you! I can't believe BM's sister did that.....blech.

Better get that spit tested for Mad Cow Disease as well as the Rabies mentioned earlier, blech blech blech what a disgusting woman!!

JustAgirl42's picture

HAHAHA! 'Mad Cow Disease' Yes, I agree, definitely will need to be tested for that! Biggrin Biggrin

clydella's picture

I wanna give ya a big ole Hell Yeah, hit her again. I'm proud of you, anybody spits on me or in my direction their gonna get everything I have in me and then some. That is one of the most disrespectful things you can do to someone, bitch deserved to get her ass beat!!

Jsmom's picture

Honey, I would have killed her...Don't beat yourself up. Get the RO. She is toxic and also, you need to confront your SD about the lies.

Gabriels Mom's picture

I am not a violent person. I can let just about anything go. There are two lines you do not cross. You do not mess with my family and for the love of God do not effing spit on me. I will break open a can of whoop ass for that one. I could probably tolerate being hit. I could just call the police and let them handle it but spit on me oh hell no. **Shudder**