Disengagment has been working so far. Last night YSS wanted to make pancakes at 9:30 at night. I was taking the dogs outside and SS asked DH if he would make pancakes for him. DH told him no that it was too late. He told SS to eat a snack. I am just sitting back and letting him handle his kids. I am not putting my two sense in. I am not cleaning up any messes they leave. If they leave a mess I tell DH that they left a mess and that he needs to clean it up or make them clean it up. I think DH is starting to actually see how much he let his kids run over him and get away with stuff because now he is actually having to step up and parent them. DH said that his interview went well yesterday so everyone please pray that he gets this job. He has a second interview on Monday. The skids are also going home on Sunday!!