The calm is over!!!!
So apparently this was the quiet before the storm because psycho BM is back. Yesterday, DH's phone is getting his phone blown up with text messages asking him if he is taking the skids for spring break when it clearly states that he gets them on even numbered years however, BM is claiming he gets them every year. Maybe if you would read the whole CO and follow it and not think the CO doesn't pertain to you BM then life would be so much more simple!
Any way, then BM is asking if she needs to send written notice that she is taking the skids to Universal studios and some wedding in Cancun this summer. Well the CO states that she needs to send written notice and that DH has to do the same by April 1st. Just read the freaking CO BM everyone is not going to hold your hand through life.
Everything is an argument with this psycho and it doesn't take 25 text messages to ask these simple questions either. I know that DH cannot control BM's actions but is he obligated to answer any of these questions or can he just tell her to read the CO and then ignore her or would that look like DH isn't communicating with BM about the skids?
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I just don't understand why
I just don't understand why BM needs to bombard with 25 text messages though. I mean it everything is an argument when she doesn't get her way. Yeah I was thinking the same thing BM has some plans and wants DH to take the skids. She "forgot" that she had them in 2017 apparently when she gave up her spring break so that MIL could see the skids and that was a drama fest as well!
DH can send idiot BM a
DH can send idiot BM a screenshot of the CO.
He did that Aniki and then
He did that Aniki and then she told him that she is going to request a final copy of the CO from the courts because apparently her copy is different from DH's LOL. You can't fix psycho. Also DH was picking up the skid's earlier than 6:00 pm on his visitation days and BM was just letting them do it so now she is making a s*** storm that she isn't going to do that anymore because the CO states 6:00 pm. I told DH just to follow the CO so there is no problems.
Let her do that, Tank. Until
Let her do that, Tank. Until the idiot can send your DH a screenshot showing that her copy is different, he can tell her to suck eggs.
This is our life also. Crazy
This is our life also. Crazy will message arguing about who gets skids on a holiday. This year it was "you just don't want skids on NYE so you can go out and drink and party" (well duh), except it clearly says in the CO that she gets skids on NYE on even years. So he just sent a pic of the CO. Again. Peas in a pod, these BM's.
LOL...BM over here doesn't
LOL...BM over here doesn't even read the CO unless it is going to benefit her or she can argue with DH which is whenever she has plans to do something she wants to do. Spring break for instance the CO states that DH has them even numbered years and apparently DH has a wrong copy of the CO or he just made it up.
As someone else said, just
As someone else said, just keep it short, friendly and informative.
"Per the CO, this is your year to have them for Spring Break. Also, please send the written notice of taking them to Cancun by 4/1, as stated on page X of the CO. Thanks, ex-DH."
Then ignore anything else, unless DH wants to take them again this year.
No, he is going to follow the
No, he is going to follow the CO because then BM has hidden agendas.
Yep, I get that, BM here also
Yep, I get that, BM here also always has hidden agendas. Anything "nice" she does for DH is a trap.
So then just a brief statement and IGNORE.