Since November, BM has been threatening mediation to reduce the amount of time SSs spend with DH, saying how much melodramatic SS hates being around DH, how traumatic it is for both children to spend time with us, how her family are all going to submit affadavits testifying to all for wh terrible things DH and I say about her, how I try to keep her from contacting her children while they are with me because I’m jealous of her, etc.
We’ve told MiL this was going on and had to tell her again when she wanted DH to ask BM if the kids could come over for Easter, even though it wasn’t DH’s time. MiL’s first reaction was to think about what it meant for her. Then at Easter, MiL had to tell me after how disappointed BiL and Silent SiL’s children were that Skids weren’t at Easter.
This weekend, melodramatic SS texts DH with a picture from BiL’s house...this same child who is so traumatized that he never wants to spend time with his dad, is spending time with his dad’s brother.
I shouldn’t be annoyed by this, but I’m annoyed that BiL just arranges time on his own and doesn’t find it weird that BM is nicer about letting the kids stay with him than with their own dad. I’m also annoyed because I’m sure melodramatic SS was happy to go and not pouting or crying and saying how stupid it was that he had to go instead of spending time with his mom or friends. I also bet a million dollars that BM does not feel the need to check in with SSs several times a day while they are with BiL. Finally, I’m annoyed because I’m sure Silent SiL talked to BM. She has talked to me once in four years...and that one time was to share her thoughts on DH’s divorce from BM. From what DH has told me, Silent SiL was not besties with BM while they were married, so that’s not the issue. Silent SiL is just a b$tch who thinks it’s her business to have opinions about DH’s divorce.