Holiday without kids
So myself and my OH are going away tomorrow for a long weekend break to center parcs with my family. They've paid. All we have to pay for is the petrol and our own drinks.
Now OH's mother, father, sister are all kicking off because we're going without his daughter. Are we bad for doing so?
His mother called him a pig.
We're planning on taking her away for a couple of days during October half term as with him losing his job last month and me working so much we haven't had the time or money to do anything before now.
We just feel we shouldn't be being guilted into not going because of his daughter. She doesn't know any different, we've had her for a couple days extra before we go and will get her when we come back. She's not asked to come with us or even asked to come away with us at all as we never have done.
Me and my OH haven't had a holiday either, the first holiday we have together will be with her. But no god forbid we have a weekend break paid for by my family for just me and him.
Are we bad for not taking her? Or going at all because she can't?
Should also mention my OH is actually on my side for a change!! He wants to go away and doesn't feel guilty.