disengagement help needed :(
I have been slowly disengaging from my previous role as live in housekeeper.with benefits / room mate. Its early in the morning and im sitting here enjoying the peace and quit because everyone is asleep.
Hum,,, I been looking around this place it now looks like a garbage dump,,, I just walked out in the kitchen and pushed all the dishes and mess to one side. shooed away the flies , Cleaned a coffee cup , made myself a coffee, and took a second glance at the garbage over flowing onto the floor.
Walked into the bathroom to see sd hair all over the sink, her make up smeared all over the sink counter, and the garbage over flowing on the floor. ( other nasty things in the garbage we wont go into )
My house looks like a scene from the Exorcist movie. Why? She has a ginny pig in her room and its living in a cage fill of shit because she wont clean it , the dishes are all over the floor with decaying molded food on them , and the entire room is filled with flies. Of course my house is filled with flies now, ( all over the bathroom, kitchen, living room it is totally disquisting ) I am sitting here with my hand over my coffee cup that is how bad it is ,,:(
He lets the dishes go for a few days and then he cleans them. ( not helping with the fly situation and im not cleaning up after them so lord of the flies he can be ,,,ugh ..)
Had a talk to him and he knows what the problem is but i guess we are gonna go by raid and that will fix it,, Im like ,, be easier for you just to grow a set of balls and that would fix it faster. or better yet,, go into sd room and pick your balls up because im sure they are hanging on her shelf in there.
This is driving me crazy I have never seen such a disguisting little pig as his 16 year old daughter. she hasnt washed her cloths in a month and wears dirty ones. her room smells like an outhouse. Her sheets on her bed are stained with blood. should i just drop her off at the zoo for she can live in her habitat?
I know im suppost to disengage but do i really have to live in a filty house because neither of them will get off there asses.
Is there someone out there with any tips for me because I really need some suggestions on how to not cave and clean up this pig pen ? thanks for taken the time to read this post .