Wish he go away and take his kid with him
I wish he would go away and take his useless 16-year-old slob with him. I'm done catering to their every want and need. Neither of them gives two flying F*cks about what I need or what. My entire life should be catering to him and his mini-wife. I'm sick of him and her, I'm tired of cleaning both their mess, they drop everything at the @ss, the kid is a dirtbag, won't shower, won't brush her teeth, sits in her room all day gaming and stuffing her pig face with never-ending junk food, he caters in meals to her room, everything has to be cooked to her likes if he does cook he makes a big damn mess, she can't even scrape her food in the garbage, brings dishes out a day or so later with all food left on them, and he is just as much as a slob as she is. they deserve each other.
I told him I do not want her moving in here full-time but he ignores me and makes plans with her for moving in at the end of school. oh, she no bother, oh she doesn't eat much, of her mother is treating her bad, and blah blah blah. bullsh!t to all of it !!
The kid wants to live here because her new freak friends go to school here and she's transferring, she has a princess room here,, the Internet. Of course, he fixed her room up, and it's perfect but won't lift a finger to fix anything else around this house. it's a big song and dance to get him to mow the yard, whipper snip, and take the garbage out, seems like he only cares that the mini wife's room is all fixed up. He makes sure when he gets groceries the cupboards are filled with never-ending junk food and everything the slob likes to stuff her pig face with. of course, I'm never thought of when he gets groceries and never buys me anything I like to eat. drives the useless thing all over the place to where ever she wants to go but gets pissy when I rarely ask to go anyways. I don't drive. I bought a car before covid with the intent to get my license. covid is just starting to wear down now and I should be able to get my license. I can't why? because him and his mini-wife are a financial drain and he doesn't always pay his share. oh, I can't pay this or that this month because sd wanted this or needs that. I have to cover the bills because I don't want to ruin my credit. more or less, I'm paying for him to whine and dine his idiot kid while I do without. The deed to the house is in my name.
the man does absolutely nothing to make me feel loved or special. I mean he never will take me out anywhere because it costs too much. I get it, I do without, and work full-time. I should be honored to be able to pick up after such glorious god-like beings, cater to their every want and needs, do without myself, and live my life as the family servant. the man does not go above and beyond to treat me special or do anything to make me feel loved.
I asked him to move out and take sd with him. he said he ain't going anywhere and this is his house, too. I checked that he is right he doesn't have to leave. he told me I need counseling for my anger issues with his daughter. lol really? I guess I'm gonna have to screw my credit ditch the house and the car and just pack a bag and leave. You would think after a year of never being intimate with him he would get the hint but he doesn't. he is never going to change and I'm tired of playing second fiddle to a dirtbag kid, I'm tired of doing without for a kid who doesn't care if I exist, and a selfish little idiot only here to take advantage of me more so then him.
Karma will bite him in the but because once I'm gone he will be evicted, they will take the car, and the idiot will run back to her mama or whatever she can use someone. get this he applied for a 5000 credit card and got it. He's already telling me how he's paying for her license on the card. How can he tell me that with a straight face knowing I can't get my license because of him and not always paying what is owed? I guess, he thinks they are both going to drive around in the car and ill be paying for her to.. no damn way, of course, he would never offer to pay for my license.
I'm sick of rarely asking to go places and he puts on a big shit show about driving me anywhere. the kid asks and it's your wish is my command ... I want them out asap! I hate to leave MY HOME to get rid of them but, I don't see any other option as he will not take his idiot kid and get out. my dream is to fix this places up. to wake up to a clean house, and food I want to eat, I don't need the car as I work from home and my family will always pick me up. I don't need to cook big meals and pay for junk food out the ying-yang. Life would be so much easier and Id have money to enjoy my life if he would just GO!
if you read this far thank you any advice would be most welcomed