Did I get everything I wanted ?
Its been along time since I visited step talk. i have received some of the best advice on here, There were days without this place that Im sure I would have gone totally crazy, Me and hubby have for the last few months been talking, working things out, and he has stepped up to the plate ( it took me leaving for awhile for him to see a few things differently ) sd lives with him full time and has for a few years.
I moved back in with him and step demon and as soon as I came back hubby has been putting his foot down with sd, he has discoved she has missed alot of time from school... she went to the office and had our house number changed, ( we didnt change it ) so they couldnt get ahold of him when time was missed. he has discovered her so called friend quin she stays alot with over night does not exist. She has a 22 year old boyfriend who lives in a rooming house with 4 other druggies, drunks, all on walfare, do not work, and just out right losers. sd has been staying with them living the same life as them,
Of course , now there are rules in place at our home now were living threw her shit show. if she is grounded she just screams , hollors , slams doors, breaks things , and calls us names and just leaves, after a few days she texts hubby only because she wants a drive , or wants money, or comes home when we arent here taking food, towels , cups, she even stole my great grand mothers bowls that were left to me, she constantly is telling her dad hes a worthless piece of shit , useless father , i could go on and on what comes out of her mouth when she doesnt get her own way,, it really is to the point that she is just sickening ,,,,
She was texted and told we were going away for the weekend and she was staying with her mother ( her mother wont take her back because she cant handle her ) locked the doors but we forgot to lock the back window, my hubbys sister was left keys to come in and feed the cat. Well,, she let herself in and what did she discover sd and loser boyfriend in our bed naked,, big mess in here , and more food gone. Im upset he wont take her keys and her cell from here because he at least can have contact with her and if she needs in here because of losers shes with she can get in ,,
in the last month she has only been home for 2 days ( the days we were away ) she dont answer his texts unless she wants something other then that we dont hear from her.
hubby is so hurt and heart broken that he has been drinking more. last night was the kicker i came home and caught him shaking holding his head and crying ( hes a touch guy he dont cry ) im so stressed now was it worth it to make him parent his kid and make rules ? seems like this shit show is worse than just the last one ( catering to her , letting her do what she wants , giving ,running ugh ) i dont know how much longer I can live is sd shit show it seems its never gonna end