The Text from BM
I thought I'd share BM's "woe is me, I give up text" since I know have access to my laptop for posting (as opposed to my phone).
Saturday night at 7:41 pm:
Hey..dnt want to fite in court..i sill give u full custody..im homeless..so plz take care of SS... Thank u. Goodbye.... Ur a great dad...thank.plz just love SS. u know pino style. i love him. just tired... won. k. i wnt be here so take care. thank u... bye Life is hard... I give up..noting to live for...u won..im tired..I cnt.. reLy Im dne... by
The woman is crazy. DH and her are not even fighting in court. Child Support services opened a case against her to pay child support and medical for her son. She currenlty has EOWe visitation and time during summer. But the court date for that is WEdnesday. I told DH that if she does not show up, then he should file for emergency sole custody on that day. Her regular visitaion is scheduled for Friday.
I assume her GF finally kicked her out. (REad my previous blogs about her freak out/ melt down and all the craziness).
The woman is on a downward spiral. I hope she doesn't show up, then DH can have sole custody and we won't have to deal with her. Aaah one can only wish. We'll see if she calls tonight for her Court ordered call...
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It's a Filipino thing. Dh is
It's a Filipino thing. Dh is half Filipino and bm has a grandmother that is part Filipino. I showed the text to MIL who is 100% Filipino and she busted out laughing at what an idiot bm is.
Ok, I was thinking with a
Ok, I was thinking with a pinot grigio.
She was probably drunk. Two
She was probably drunk.
Two weeks ago she called dh at 9 in the morning drunk, crying and saying she misses him. (She left him 9 years ago to be with a woman). Dh hung up on her. She called again and I answered and told her not to call my husband. She texted about 5 min later saying she was horny (read my blog about my crazy bm) then texted a few minutes later stating it was the wrong person.
Dh filed a police report because there is a restraining order against her. The police have been involved. I also texted the messages over to her gf - who btw, she cheats on all the time.
Now that the gf has kicked her out, she has nothing. The sad part is that she has a son that loves her more than anything but she is too sick to see it.
I think that her outburst two weeks ago, combined with her recent text should give dh immediate full custody. Dh is willing to file if she doesn't show up on wed.
He says this is how it's always been. She goes crazy and will disappear for a while. She's just been on her best behavior the past two years trying to compete with me and dh and show what a good mom she is but she's cracked.
Will that text you got on
Will that text you got on Saturday be admitted in court? It would help a lot! :O
Yes. I think we will file for
Yes. I think we will file for contempt (1- she constantly breaks the RO and 2- she doesn't take ss to his activities as she is ordered to do) and a change in custody. We'll see.
For some crazy reason, I do
For some crazy reason, I do think hat she thinks she can send a message like this to dh and he will come running. Very much like she thought she could call him crying two weeks ago and say that she missed him.
Nope. Not this time. Not since I'm here. Game over bm. Your manipulation is over. Mm