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smurfy1smile's picture

Submitted by smurfy1smile on Fri, 10/31/2008 - 11:15pm

BM insisted on having FSS 11 months for Halloween to take him trick or treating. Whatever. So BF agreed to pick him up at his parents house at a later time instead of the usual pickup place at the usual time. So BF gets his son and his is asleep at 7pm, making those little hiccup noises kids make after they have cried hysterically for a while. Grandma woke baby up to see him and BF changed him into his sleeper and changed his diaper too. The diaper was soaked - like slept in sovernight soaked or not been changed all day soaked. Even the waistband of his pants was wet. GROSS! No wonder baby has diaper rash so often. This is how his diaper is everytime we get him. BM will pick him up from daycare, drive him 20 miles to drop him off and then BF or I has to bring him the rest of the way to our house about another 40 miles. I have to change his diaper before we start out because it is always soaked. I guess BN told grandma that she just picked baby up and quickly brought him over to their house. She did not even stay long enough for BF to show up. They passed each other on the road. BM claims baby get hot but she dressed him in a moing sleeve shirt, pants and one of those fleece baby costumes, but no socks. She has never come to us in socks or dressed for the weather. Its crazy and now BM wants sole physical and legal custody! What she needs is a reality check which she is going to get when she gets the papers we mailed off today. I know she is going to be pissed beyond words. We left nothing out! But that's a story for another day.

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Submitted by Rags on Sun, 11/02/2008 - 12:09am

When he was younger my SS would come back from visitation (1wk Spring, 6wks summer, 2wks fall, 1-2wks Xmas) with diaper rash so bad his anus would bleed, large puss filled sores on his buttocks, 1/4inch+ finger nails, and so dirty he stunk and the bath water would turn dark when we bathed him. (and lets not forget the head lice). He would howl when we had to clean his butt and repeatedly potty train him over and over. We would send him on visitation ~80% toilet trained and he would come back in diapers because the Spermidiots "did not have enough time to keep taking him to the bathroom". Welcome to parenthood MORONS! Now for the really angering part, this went on until he was 4 years old! I was ready to rip out their eyes and piss on their brains these people pissed me off so bad. Who would do that to any kid much less one they purported to love? We would nearly have him toilet trained and they would send him back in soaking pull ups or diapers.

My favorite part of this was when the Judge said "this is not abuse, any child would be blessed to have the love of this family". That is why I have no use for the idiots in the black robes with the stupid little wooden hammers who have so much sway over peoples lives. Who can take anyone seriously who dresses like that? Things would be a whole lot better if we could sue judges who make stupid decisions. They would learn how to make better decisions in a hurry if they were held accountable for their decisions like the rest of us are.

When he started school visitation dropped to 1wk spring break, 5wks summer, 1-2 weeks Xmas. By then we had SS toilet trained and fairly self sufficient.

Make sure you take pictures, keep a journal of all conversations between your side and the opposition and anything the skids tell you and ........ if it is legal in your state record every telephone call with the oppostion. In Texas you can record your own calls without informing the other party. This is a great tool if you are dealing with an X or bio parent who has issues.

Good luck and best regards,

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Submitted by Tara12 on Sun, 11/02/2008 - 4:32pm

What kind of mother does not dress their child for the weather or even change a diaper. I mean how stupid can you she be (I know rheotorical)? She is just making an even worse case against herself after you document all of this. No 11mth old should be left in soaked through diaper. it is obvious she doesn't care. I hope you get everyting worked out - I hate to read these kinds of things. That little baby boy would be better off with you and your BF. Some people should just NOT be parents.