Ready to leave.
I’ve really had enough with my marriage. My husband doesn’t help me with my child and completely neglects him and my step son when I’m gone. I ran a few errands on Thursday and he said he would watch my son. I put him down for a nap when I left and when I came back my husband said he only slept for thirty minutes. I was gone for two hours. The minute I walked into my house I could smell the stench from my sons diaper. I asked him if he had changed him since I left and he replied no. He was soaked. His clothes were wet and his poop was up his back. Same thing happens with my step son. He doesn’t change him for hours and then he will be soaked from head to toe. His step son doesn’t let me touch him so he won’t let me change him. I tell my husband to and he doesn’t. It’s awful I’m done. He is so lazy and I can’t handle it. We both got awful colds over the weekend and while I’m up running around taking care of my son he’s laying on the couch and going to bed at 6. I ask him to feed my son and he shovels food so fast into my sons mouth because he hates doing it and wants to get it done as quickly as possible. I’m the only one who wakes up in the night with him I’m the only one who bathed him. I have to practically beg him to help me and I’m done. Does anybody have any tips for the first steps to take before a divorce to ensure I get more custody of my son than he will? I want to be able to prove he’s lazy and not an ideal father. Because he isn’t. He neglects my son and his son. Awful.