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Sick YSS and our weekend

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Well I figured out why YSS was so grumpy this week, he is sick.  I had very little contact with him this week so I wasn’t aware of this until after he had gone and of course after he contaminated the entire house!   

It seems not only is YSS sick but so is MSS and OSs.   Not that we ever see MSS and OSs.   

I was shocked to hear DH say he hoped YSS doesn’t come for his visit this weekend because he is sick.   Not that smash doesn’t care but because my bs is coming home and we had plans to go do things and YSS would not feel up to it.  

When DH called YSS last night to see how he was I specifically told DH to ask YSS if he had been to the dr.  And of course he had not.  So another reason DH is hoping YSS stays home is because it never fails....YSS comes here sick as can be and we have to deal with it.  Then BM texts YSS constantly to make sure we are babying him enough.  THEN late Sunday BM demands we take YSS to the clinic before they close.   She does this so the bill will come to DH and not her.  It’s her passive aggressive way of sticking it to DH.   

This is BMs pattern.  And to be honest I don’t want to have to deal with myself or my BS being sick for the short time I will have him home.  

So here is to hoping YSS decides to stay home and not infect our entire house!!!

 

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ESMOD's picture

If your DH is the NCP.. I would tell BM he can't exercise his custody this weekend... Smile

SM12's picture

 BM is such a nightmare and will use it to turn YSS against DHike she did with the older two.  DH is trying to talk to YSS and make it seem like it’s YSSs idea.   It’s all in how he approached YSS with it.