DH can’t take hint
I have noticed a lot lately that DH is asking YSS a lot of questions about OSS and MSS (who have been PASd for 3 or more years). He is doing it in a friendly and non confrontational manner and acting like it is just Norma conversation. However, it is making YSS uncomfortable. Last week I was witness to these questions and I started cringing. Not because YSS showed much objection but just because I could feel how odd it all seemed.
Well YSS finally told DH he didn’t want “put in the middle” the last time DH was asking about YSS and MSS.
I mnkw yss hears a lot of nasty comments about DH and myself at BMs. And he never voluntarily mentions BM or the Other SSs. He is smart enough to know the dynamics and chooses to stay out of it.
When DH told me what YSS said about not wanting to be In the middle I told DH I agree. Stop asking about OSs or MSS. It is not his place to keep you up on their lives. I doubt DH really gets it.
He is going to keep it up and push YSS away if he doesn’t listen to what he is saying.