Ignores us IRL likes us on social media
My SD15 will not talk to DH or me and also refuses to visit us.
However I've just noticed that she likes everything I post on Instagram within hours of when I post.
I'm not super active on social media. I use Facebook as a sort of photo gallery for my friends and family that live in other states. I don't comment much and I don't post much other than for big events and it's just family photos. SD isn't on Facebook and that's no surprise since I don't know many people who are under 30 that are!
My Instagram is not super exciting either I only use it to post pictures of my hobbies, gardening, houseplants, baked goods, paintings... Stuff like that. I treat Instagram as more of a creative portfolio. There aren't any pictures of me or my family on it. I follow a few people that I know but mostly Instagram is a bunch of creative accounts that align with my hobbies.
My DH follows SD on Snapchat and she posts there once in awhile usually the same reels as Instagram and that is where she interacts with MeddlesomeSIL the most. I don't do Snapchat. SD also is very active on TikTok but neither DH or I have that due to the security concerns.
SD15 is on Instagram and we follow each other. She doesn't post much of anything other than selfie and music quote reels that she only leaves up for a couple hours. I don't interact with her because BM is also on Instagram and I know she watches everything that SD15 posts like a hawk.
SD15 likes every single thing that I post. I have to admit I don't really speak teenager, does this mean she doesn't really hate us? I'm probably overthinking it.
My Instagram is public because it's just sharing creative images no personal pics but that means BM has probably looked at it too.