A work colleague/friend called me earlier to catch up, I've had quite a bit of time off work lately as they owed me hours and I had holiday to take. Anyway, my friend told me that our colleague/friend had handed his notice in at work but hadn't told many people yet. I've known this man for years, and I have to admit I was upset to hear that he is going, but also proud because I know he has wanted to go down a different career path for a long time. Once I got off the phone to my friend I sent him a text, just the usual... sorry to hear you're going, I probably wont see you before you go but good luck etc... and as I sent it I felt a bit nervous/like I was doing something wrong and I don't know why. So knows about him, I told SO that he is leaving work, and me and this man have been friends for years. There has never been anything in it other than friendship, nor have I wanted there to be, but it felt wrong texting another man. Although I occasionally text him, and a couple of other male friends, its usually mutual friends of SO and I. I don't know, I'm hormonal and odd lately :? but I felt like I was doing something wrong. God knows why, when SO texts BM and doesn't tell me half the time... anywayyyy