Did he stop sleeping with her before he was with me..?!
So there is literally no way of me knowing this, and I'm probably being ridiculously paranoid...but I feel like I already deal with and have dealt with a lot when it comes to SO. Obviously, being in this situation I've had to deal with an insane BM who would devote her last days to making our lives (especially mine) hell... I also have to deal with the fact that BM lives near us and we share many of the same acquaintances/friends. Also, SO's girlfriend from after BM, although she has never caused me a problem whatsoever, also shares acquaintances so I have to see pics of her on FB. If this wasn't enough for my paranoid little mind lol, I found out about 6 months ago that SO had a bit of a fling after his break up with his ex girlfriend. This girl works with him - oh joy! My crazy lady FB stalking found this out for me, he'd never have told me in a million years otherwise. So basically, about 6 months ago I found out that he had pretty much just been sleeping with a girl from work - he never wanted to make her his girlfriend but regardless, they had a fling and some of his friends met her. Now, I know that SO split with BM in 2010, got a new girlfriend in Feb 2012 and was with her until Sep 2012 so the fling obv happened after Sep. My SO is fairly sensitive when it comes to relationships and stuff so I cant imagine he jumped into bed with the next woman after his relationship failed, although he is male... So I am assuming the fling happened around Oct/Nov - maybe.. Anyway, I met SO in Jan 2013 and we made it official at the end of Feb 2013. My paranoid mind couldn't take thinking that he may have been sleeping with this girl when he knew me, although he had no loyalties towards me it makes me feel sick. I wasn't intimate with him until the Feb (THANK GOD) but its just the thought of it. So, like the loony than I am, I Facebook messaged the girl asking her... she told me that her and my SO fizzled out around Dec 2012/Jan 2013 and that he didn't tell her about me until Valentines 2013... SO and I rowed about it loads, he told me it was over with them two before me and him got together.. 6 months later this has reoccurred in my mind and I am paranoid