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Deluded BMs

saffron1's picture

Yesterday I went to have lunch with a good friend who is an acquaintance of BM (their SOs are good friends - we live in a small place!) My friend told me about BM's upcoming birthday plans and said that she had agreed to a night-shift at work that evening, to avoid awkwardness etc. Anyway, my friend told me that BM has been trying to convert my friend onto her side, telling her 'all the things Saffron1 has done' and inviting her to couples' meals and girlie days. To cut a long story short, my friend feels as though she is in an awkward position but I am fully aware that her loyalties lie with me (BM barely paid her any attention, despite their SOs being close, until I came onto the scene.) Anyway, my friend showed me some of BM's recent Facebook posts (I have BM blocked) and I just had to laugh at how deluded she is. This woman has had MULTIPLE children by MULTIPLE men - I am fully aware that things don't always work out, if SO and I have children then he will have kids by two different woman. However, I feel that there is a difference between things 'not working out' and being easy... BM is too young to have had so many failed relationships with so many 'awful' men. Anyway, BM has been making Facebook posts (again) claiming that I am jealous of her and her 'babies' (I'd love to know how I could be jealous of a toddler, seems a bit psychotic if you ask me) and that I wish I had her level of 'class'. Now, I am used to the jealously accusations, they have become standard, (may I add I have never responded to any of them) BUT the class thing has really ticked me off! The woman is deluded, absolutely insane. She has NO class. To me, class is: intelligence, morals, being kind-hearted, well-mannered and possibly not procreating with every male you meet. I apologise for this rant and know that I must try to stop allowing this woman to frustrate me but I feel as though if I didn't pour this out here then my SO would have had to deal with it on his only day off work!

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Disneyfan's picture

I think your friend is just as classless as BM. She knows darn well the two of you don't get along yet she feels the need to share BM gossip.

saffron1's picture

Maybe you're all right about the friend thing. I feel as though I can 100% trust her to be loyal but I understand what you all mean about the gossip side, I would prefer if my friend would be civil with BM but refrain from sitting on the fence. Thanks for all the advice regarding BM. This woman really does know how to wind me up, however she will never know it! Classless is definitely the correct word to describe her!