I am so angry
I read on this site quite a but but don’t post often unless something extreme happens. Last night BM, who is an Olympic level drinker, was drunk/rage texting DH about all kinds of non-sense. It was late and we did not respond at first. It is in their court order that all communication is to go through OFW and she typically adheres to that requirement. That is unless she is super wasted. His responses were to send messgaes thorugh OFW and stop contacting him.
For context: Dh changed jobs a while back and it took an extra pay cycle to catch up child support payments, he is current and would never not pay his obligations to support SD17. Just for the record he pays $1900 per month for one child. For some reason, the OAG website still shows that he is $900 in arrears. He has called and confirmed he is current and was told that it takes a while to clear those messages. Ok, fine, life goes on.
However, last night BM is sending all kinds of messages about him being behind, makes a multitude of threats about contacting his job, etc. Then she threatens to contact my company. I was furious to say the least.
My mantra when it comes to BM is the following: I was not in the bedroom, delivery room or named in that divorce decree. She. Is. Not. My Problem.
I am a VP in large national company and have worked very hard to get to this position. I do not need her BS polluting my life. She sent a message to the company’s general mailbox making these same allegations and asking for someone from HR to contact her. Livid would be an understatement as to how I felt. Joke's on her – I am the VP of HR!
DH called his attorney, and we are issuing a cease and desist; she is blocked on his phone now (been blocked on mine for years) and I am trying to calm the f&*k down.