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princessandthepee's picture

Submitted by princessandthepee on Fri, 10/08/2021 - 2:54am

Last night was another fight about pee being 26 and not having to pay to wipe his own ass.  He sleeps til 3-4 pm, which I have also done due to frustration and depresion over him still being here.  It has come to the point that I have told my husband I am ready to move out.  I fought hard to keep my house during my  divorce.  That I am more willing to give it up than continue to live in the same house as his weirdo conspiracy, gun oriented, lazy son  is the most powerful statement I can make.  
 

I just had to get this out. I can't talk to anyone else..  Friends and family largely don't understand what is at stake if you leave a second marriage, especially when you still love him. 

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justmakingthebest's picture

Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 10/08/2021 - 7:10am

I left a 2nd marriage and DH is my 3rd. It does suck.

In the end, it doesn't matter but one thing is for sure, I wouldn't give up my house, I would serve SS with an eviction notice and if DH wants to join him than he can. 

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Submitted by Ispofacto on Fri, 10/08/2021 - 9:24am

This!

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Submitted by GrudgingSM on Fri, 10/08/2021 - 7:41am

I'm not a lawyer, much less a property rights lawyer, but I agree with the comments above that you need to evict. Many on here have suggested what they call a burning platform as well. There needs to be a move out date in place already. And you need to make it extremely uncomfortable to sit stay. Wi-Fi gets cut at a certain time. And maybe the Netflix streaming password is changed. or at least that would be the normal suggestion, the way worry about the gun obsession. I also think you should feel free to change the locks. Also most attorneys offer free consultations, so if you want to ask one about your legal standing here for kicking this freeloader out, that would be another thing to do and be sure to mention the guns.

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 10/08/2021 - 7:49am

Yes, make is as uncomfortable as possible! Stop shopping for more than a day at a time and don't keep extra food in the house. It is inconvenient and more expensive for you in the short term but the benefit of him leaving is worth it. 

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Submitted by hereiam on Fri, 10/08/2021 - 9:22am

Why would you leave your house? Evict, evict, evict. Is the house in just your name?

What is wrong with your husband that he allows this?

You have been dealing with this long enough; time to do something about it. Actually DO something, not just give ultimatums and then back down. This is not good for your health.